Pressing through the pain {Lysa TerKeurst}

Pain is the indicator that brokenness exists. — Lysa TerKeurst, Embraced Pressing Through the Pain by Lysa TerKeurst, from her devotional Embraced Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. — James 4:8 NKJV Does it ever feel like the heartbreak in your life is trying to break you? I understand. I really, really do. I’ve been in that place where the pain of heartbreak hits with such sudden and sharp force that it feels like it cuts through skin and bone. It’s the kind of pain that leaves us wondering if we’ll ever be able to function like a normal person again. But God has been tenderly reminding me that pain itself is not the enemy. Pain is the indicator that brokenness exists. Pain is the reminder that the real Enemy is trying to take us out and bring us down by keeping us stuck in broken places. Pain is the gift that motivates us to fight with brave tenacity and fierce determination, knowing there’s healing on the other side. And in the in-between? In that desperate place where we aren’t quite on the other side of it all yet, and our heart still feels quite raw? Pain is the invitation for God to move in and replace our faltering strength with His. I’m not writing that to throw out spiritual platitudes that sound good; I write it from the depth of a heart that knows it’s the only way. We must invite God into our pain to help us survive the desperate in-between. The only other choice is to run from the pain by using some method of numbing. But numbing the pain never goes to the source of the real issue to make us healthier. It only silences our screaming need for help. We think we are freeing ourselves from the pain when, in reality, what numbs us imprisons us. If we avoid the hurt, the hurt creates a void in us. It slowly kills the potential for our hearts to fully feel, fully connect, fully love again. It even steals the best in our relationship with God. Pain is the sensation that indicates a transformation is needed. There is a weakness where new strength needs to enter in. And we must choose to pursue long-term strength rather than temporary relief. So how do we get this new strength? How do we stop ourselves from chasing what will numb us when the deepest parts of us scream for some relief? How do we stop the piercing pain of this minute, this hour? We invite God’s closeness. For me, this means praying. No matter how vast our pit, prayer is big enough to fill us with the realization of His presence like nothing else. Our key verse (James 4:8) reminds us that when we draw near to God, He will draw near to us. When we invite Him close, He always accepts our invitation. And on the days when my heart feels hurt and my words feel quite flat, I let Scripture guide my prayers — recording His Word in my journal, and then adding my own personal thoughts. One of my favorites to turn to is Psalm 91. I would love to share this verse with you today, as an example for when you prayerfully invite God into your own pain. Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. — Psalm 91:1 Prayer: Lord, draw me close. Your Word promises when I draw close to You, You are there. I want my drawing close to be a permanent dwelling place. At any moment when I feel weak and empty and alone, I pray that I won’t let those feelings drag me down into a pit of insecurity. But rather, I want those feelings to be triggers for me to immediately lift those burdensome feelings to You and trade them for the assurance of Your security. I am not alone, because You are with me. I am not weak, because Your strength is infused in me. I am not empty, because I’m drinking daily from Your fullness. You are my dwelling place. And in You I have shelter from every stormy circumstance and harsh reality. I’m not pretending the hard things don’t exist, but I am rejoicing in the fact that Your covering protects me and prevents those hard things from affecting me like they used to. You, the Most High, have the final say over me. You know me and love me intimately. And today I declare that I will trust You in the midst of my pain. You are my everyday dwelling place, my saving grace. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. And with that I close my prayer journal, feeling a lot less desperate and a lot more whole. I breathe the atmosphere of life His words bring. I picture Him standing at the door of my future, knocking. If I will let Him enter into the darkness of my hurt today, He will open wide the door to a much brighter tomorrow. Dear Lord, in this moment I draw near to You and I invite Your closeness. Help me to experience Your presence today. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. Excerpted with permission from Embraced by Lysa TerKeurst, copyright Lysa TerKeurst. Hear from Lysa about Embraced * * *   Your Turn Are you stuck in broken places? Are you raw and can’t seem to move on from all the pain? Instead of numbing today, let’s face the pain and recognize what it is — an indicator that change is needed. We need Jesus. We need His strength and His closeness, especially in times of suffering. Let’s invite Him in. ~ Devotionals Daily   COMMENT Save 50% off Lysa TerKeurst's bestselling devotional that moms will love! In Embraced, Lysa shares her own struggles and doubts while pointing to the Ultimate Embrace: Jesus opening His arms wide on Calvary so that He could pull us close for eternity.        List Price: $19.99 Sale Price: $9.99 (50% off + free U.S. shipping with code HOPE through 4/30/2020) BUY NOW Now available in eBOOK!    Do you long for freedom from the struggles that have held you hostage? Do you want to learn new ways to experience God’s love? Do you want to surrender your deepest hurts, and process them in a Godly way? Are you seeking an honest friend who understands your pain? In Embraced, beloved author and Bible teacher Lysa TerKeurst invites you into her own struggles to guide you on an intimate journey with the Lord. Through 100 devotions, she'll help you seek His direction by opening your heart up to God. By spending intentional, guided time with Him each day, you can feel embraced by God too. With an exquisite cloth cover, highly designed interior, ribbon marker, and stained page edges, Embraced will be a treasured keepsake for you as well as a meaningful gift for those you love. Take a Look Inside "If you ever feel like it’s hard to hear God’s voice about all the chaotic noise competing for your heart’s attention… the struggles, the worries, the hurts, the betrayals… I understand. Sometimes we underestimate how much courage it takes to release our desire to fix it all and make the choice to fix our eyes on Jesus. That’s exactly why I pulled together a collection of devotions from my recent books, blogs and personal journal for my new book Embraced." — Lysa TerKeurst   Learn more and save on the devotional *Prices and free U.S. shipping (excluding Alaska and Hawaii) with code HOPE valid until 4/30/20. Sale pricing exclude ebooks.    Inspired by today's devotion? Share it with someone!    Devotionals Daily ~ our mission is to help you grow and share your faith. Copyright © 2020 HarperCollins Christian Publishing, All Rights Reserved. 501 Nelson Place, Nashville, TN, 37214 USA Terms and Conditions | Privacy Policy *Manage Your eMail Preferences or Unsubscribe