A Prayer for Those Caught in the Gossip Trap By Meg Bucher The fibers in my stomach began to fly off with my lunch as mud slung out of my smartphone speaker. For seven years, I had tried to find the good and lend an understanding nod, until God revealed my agreeability made me guilty of conspiracy. Afraid to come across as judgmental, I refused to weigh in directly. Confidence at a high volume lofted a convincing argument on dishonesty's behalf, and a strangling hold on the hand of truth that threatened to lurch out of my stomach. I always found something positive to say about the person in vocal peril, but ran the risk of being directly associated with the entirety of the conversation. "Stay away from ungodly babbling because it will only lead deeper into a godless lifestyle." 2 Timothy 2:16 (VOICE) Through the Holy Spirit abides in every Christian heart, and the uneasinesses I felt was a warning for me to evacuate that phone call. God is the protector of our hearts, alerting us to falsities that attempt to crack through the surface. What is"ungodly babbling?" Paul warned of false teachers, whose grand assumptions illuminated a lack of knowledge. In 1 Timothy 1:4, he warns, "Tell them to turn away from fables and endless genealogies. These activities just cause more arguments and confusion." Gossip operates on opinion. Faith is fueled by fact. "Once these empty voices start to speak, Timothy, they infect and spread; and soon the body is consumed with its cancer." 2 Timothy 2:17 (VOICE) The more we entertain gossip, the more likely we are to consider it. Aiming to operate in peace with someone by allowing them air out their opinion puts our hearts at risk for misaligned empathy. "Instead, they should concern themselves with welcoming in and bringing about the reign of God, which is all about faith. " 1 Timothy 1:4b Looking back, I had made room in my schedule to take that phone call, and it cost me. No one can force an ear-full of gossip upon us, yet we often let a guilt-filled, "good friend," status overcome our urge to hit"Ignore." When we pray for God to redirect the way we spend our time, He is faithful to answer. "Our teaching about this journey is intended to bring us to a single destination—a place where self-giving love reigns from a pure heart, a clean conscience, and a genuine faith. " 1 Timothy 1:5 (VOICE) When our minds are full of things we wish we didn't know about people, it threatens to taint our view of them. Christian life aims to see the God-placed strand good in everyone. |
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