4 Steps to Banish Bitterness
By: Alisha Headley "Watch out so that no poisonous root of bitterness springs up, causing trouble to you and by it, defiling many..." - Hebrews 12:15 Poison. The Bible refers to bitterness as poison. In the Old Testament, the sin of an individual or family in Israel affected the entire nation as a whole. Israel was a covenant community. As such, it would experience national blessing or cursing. The individual who sinned could not expect to remain anonymous and the individual sin would have massive effects on the entire nation. Just like back then, the metaphor of the root bearing bitterness refers to the entire tree as a whole that is no longer bearing good fruit because of one single branch that bears that poisonous fruit. Where in your life are you carrying that one branch of poisonous, bitter fruit? It can seem so small in your eyes but could be affecting your entire life. Perhaps you are angry at your husband for an offense against you many years ago. You may think you have 'let it go' and moved past the incident, and yet, you are harboring a single branch of bitterness that could be challenging your relationship, and you're wondering why things in your marriage are not getting better. We all get hurt. I've been hurt by some of the closest people to me. The way you respond to suffering determines whether that hurt makes you BETTER or BITTER. 
Thankfully, we have a God who shows us grace. Who promises to forgive our sins and wrongdoing, "as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us" (Psalm 103:12). And he "remembers our sins no more" (Hebrews 8:12). It's that simple. He erases all our hurt we cause Him and all our daily sins. When we refuse that grace from God and refuse to lend that same grace to others, it creates an inner environment where bitterness can grow. We have all been wronged. It's up to choose either to forgive or to dwell on the wrongdoing to the point where we let bitterness take root. To be bitter is a choice. When a root of bitterness springs up, it not only destroys your inner peace but can wound all those around you just like it mentions in the Scripture: "causing trouble to you and by it, defiling many." Bitterness defiles all those it touches, starting with the one who is bitter, but then extending to other relationships just as the Scripture mentions. Therefore, bitterness can have far-reaching, long-lasting, and self-destructive effects. How do we get rid of that branch of bitterness we have toward someone? | 
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