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"Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts." Colossians 3:15-16 (NIV)
So much of what's on the news today truly feels like something we'd only see in a Hollywood movie — not real life.
COVID-19 has not only spread across the world at record levels, but it's also spread across our daily realities and changed so much for so many. Because of the life-threatening potential of the virus, social distancing and canceled gatherings are necessary precautions. We want to do what's right, so we're listening to officials and paying extra attention to updates and news conferences.
While all of this is necessary, it's also jarring.
It's like life just slammed on the brakes, and we're all still reeling from the whiplash.
Certainly, in the grand scheme of things, saving lives is most important. But there are emotions we need to be able to process in the midst of all these sudden changes. One of those is the very real feeling of disappointment. And right behind it is the worry that expressing our disappointment could make us look petty in the midst of the seriousness of this virus.
Please know processing our disappointments is not only OK … it's emotionally and spiritually necessary. You're not making light of someone else's serious pain when you process your pain to gain a better perspective.
So, first, whatever you're going through today, it's worth taking to the Lord and asking for His help. And second, let's give each other grace since we are all trying to navigate unexpected fears, hardships and disappointments. Social distancing doesn't mean we distance ourselves from offering each other grace.
With that as the anthem playing in the background … let's process what we are facing.
Last week, I had to help a friend navigate canceling her wedding. That same day, my husband had to close the dining room of his restaurant. Other friends are trying to figure out how to make enough money to live since they've been told their workplace had to close. Those of us who don't get paid when we can't go to work are looking at scary financial realities. Schools are closed. Graduations and family gatherings are canceled. Businesses large and small are experiencing financial realities that some fear they won't be able to overcome. Everything we thought we would be doing in this season looks vastly different than we expected, and the feelings of loss are real.
So, what do we do with those? As Christians, how do we set our minds and hearts on things above when we are staring at startling realities?
Here are some things I wrote in my journal that are helping me:
1. Frame the disappointment by remembering what you do have, so you don't get consumed by what's been taken.
Many of you are having to cancel or postpone important life events right now and that's very hard. It's incredibly emotional when you've dreamed and planned and invested in what you thought would be a very normal expectation.
But remember, fun has not been canceled.
Love has not been canceled.
Being good to other people has not been canceled. |
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