Love Overlooks Offenses

Current Teaching Series You Make Me Crazy

Love Overlooks Offenses By Rick Warren — 08/10/2024 "A person's wisdom yields patience; it is to one's glory to overlook an offense." Proverbs 19:11 (NIV) When you're dealing with people who are offensive or irritating, you need to look past the behavior to the pain. Everything we do is motivated by something. When people hurt others, it's because they're hurting on the inside. Hurt people hurt other people. The more you understand about someone's background, the more grace you'll show them. Think of a person you find to be difficult or irritating. You probably know nothing about their background, so you don't cut them any slack. You don't know that maybe they lost their parents at a young age. You don't know that maybe they were molested. You don't know that maybe they've gone through two marriages and their spouse just walked out on them. You don't know their story, and that's part of why you're not showing them any grace. The Bible says in Proverbs 19:11, "A person's wisdom yields patience; it is to one's glory to overlook an offense" (NIV). It's easy to take offense from people you find difficult. But when you're wise, you don't get offended easily. Why? Because wisdom gives you patience. When you patiently take the time to understand someone's background, you understand the stress they're under—and it's easier to show grace. Your understanding gives you the patience to overlook the offense. What I'm talking about here is real love. In fact, the Bible says refusing to be offended by other people is actually an act of mature love. The more love you have in your heart, the harder it is for someone to personally offend you. The less love you have in your heart, the more insecure you feel and the easier it is to offend you. Proverbs 10:12 says, "Love overlooks the wrongs that others do" (CEV). The more you're filled with love, the less you'll be upset when people are demanding, demeaning, or disapproving. When you encounter a difficult person, remember to do this: Look past the behavior to the pain. Then refuse to be offended and, instead, respond in love. PLAY today's audio teaching from Pastor Rick >> Talk It Over Who are the people you find the most difficult to deal with and who irritate you the most? How can you respond in love rather than getting offended by them? When was a time that love and wisdom helped you overlook an offense? How did this affect you personally or affect your relationship with that person?  Wisdom helps you to respond in love. How can you grow in wisdom? Will you follow Jesus today? God proved his goodness through his Son, Jesus Christ. The Bible says, "For God loved the world in this way: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life" (John 3:16 CSB). Are you ready to trust God to fulfill his promise of eternal life? If so, start by praying this simple prayer: "Dear God, I believe Jesus Christ is your Son. I confess I have sinned, and I ask for your forgiveness. I believe that Jesus died to take away my sins and that you raised him to life. I want to trust Jesus as my Savior and follow him as Lord from this day forward. Guide my life and help me to do your will. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen." If you just prayed to accept Jesus, please email me at Rick@PastorRick.com and let me know about it. I'd like to send you some free materials to help you start your journey with Jesus. The post Love Overlooks Offenses appeared first on Pastor Rick's Daily Hope.

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