Encouragement for Today- July 07, 2020

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July 7, 2020 When It’s Hard to Love Yourself NICKI KOZIARZ Lee en español “The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:31 (NIV) If you were in my thoughts for the day, I think you’d be surprised how many negative thoughts pass through my brain. Things like: Not good enough. Not smart enough. Not worthy enough. Just not enough. I’ve never been a highly confident person. But I also wouldn’t say I have extremely low self-confidence. I find myself somewhere in between, bouncing between the high and low. I know what the Bible says about who I am, and I know who God thinks I am. But I still find myself teetering between what I know versus what I feel. And if I’m honest, sometimes what I’m feeling comes out in the way I treat others. I never wake up and make the conscious decision to treat others the way I feel. But I often find myself at the end of the day wondering why I said what I said, reacted the way I reacted, and felt the negative feelings toward someone else I felt. After years of wrestling with this, I’ve come to understand it’s a love issue. One reason why I think we struggle so much to live out the second greatest commandment is because honestly, we struggle to love ourselves the right way. There’s a saying: Hurt people hurt people. We could insert a dozen other words into this phrase, such as: People who struggle to love themselves, struggle to love their neighbors. Somehow, the message to love yourself like God does was turned into pride. People with too much confidence in themselves were deemed arrogant or full of themselves. Nobody wanted that. And so we ran the opposite direction, creating this unhealthy consequence in thinking low of others. But that route seems to have left us in disobedience to this command. If Jesus said loving our neighbor was the second greatest commandment, we need to understand what the first is. It’s found in Mark 12:30: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” (NIV) Thankfully, God doesn’t just expect us to “get this.” He provides so much Scripture for us to fill our minds with His love, in order to live out His commands. Love God with all your heart. What we receive is what we can give. Daily, we need to receive this unending love God has for us. Receiving what we need is the only way we don’t run “dry” in our ability to give love to others. Love God with all your soul. Our souls are a complicated place. One way we can love God with our souls is to seek repentance, a daily cleansing. The more we receive God’s forgiveness, the more we can offer forgiveness to others. Love God with all your mind. As we think of ourselves how God thinks of us, it becomes easier to think of others like God thinks of them. God is not the author of anyone unworthy or unloveable. May we take captive these thoughts and replace them with the thoughts God has for us. Love God with all your strength. Each day we get up and keep going. Strength isn’t a place of perfection but a place of perseverance. When we don’t give up on God, it allows us to have an extra dose of grace to not give up on ourselves or on others. The way we view God is so closely intertwined with the way we view ourselves that we can’t separate the two. And the way we view ourselves and the way we treat others is so intertwined we also cannot separate the two. So if it feels hard to love others today, maybe we start by loving ourselves. Let’s receive what we need — so we can give to others what they need. Then, we can live out Mark 12:31 and watch the world around us change, one step of love at a time. Dear God, thank You that You love us even when it’s hard for us to love ourselves. Help us receive Your love in a way that makes us become so incredibly generous in our souls to give love away. Thank You for always meeting us where we are, not where we wish we were. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. TRUTH FOR TODAY: Deuteronomy 6:5, “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.” (ESV) Psalm 63:6, “I lie awake thinking of you, meditating on you through the night.” (NLT) RELATED RESOURCES: What do you cling to in the chaos? In the midst of transition, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and unsteady. But, when life feels chaotic, God is our calm. 5 Promises in Scripture to Cling to When Life Feels Chaotic will help you apply Scripture to build up your faith when your life's circumstances are making you waver. This five-day devotional is free! Sign up here. In Nicki Koziarz’s book, 5 Habits of a Woman Who Doesn’t Quit, Nicki shares ways to be emotionally generous with our neighbors. Click here to purchase. CONNECT: Nicki loves to share life and lessons she’s learning through her podcast, Lessons From The Farm. Click here to listen. REFLECT AND RESPOND: Do you find it hard to love yourself the way God loves you? Which of these — heart, soul, mind or strength — do you struggle with the most? In the comment section today, we’d love to hear examples of when you were able to love yourself the way God loves you … so you could love someone else the way God commands us to love. © 2020 by Nicki Koziarz. All rights reserved. Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

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